Circles Of Success
It turns out that happy, successful entrepreneurs share a number of very interesting, psychological and social support strategies that almost guarantees their success. In a 2009 Study of Successful Female Entrepreneurs, the London School of Psychology published an article which analysed the belief systems and social support structures of female entrepreneurs.
What they discovered was alarming for anyone wanting to replicate their success. In addition to all of them maintaining positive mental attitudes, they also had very interesting beliefs about themselves, and had constructed concentric circles of success support.
What are Concentric Circles of Success?
Each of these women, had a deeply held belief that: “The Universe/God Loves Me and wants me to succeed” or “I am Blessed” or similar.
But in addiction to this strange self belief, they also had, a circle of close friends and family that would tell them that they were Loved, lucky, amazing, and that the “The Universe Loves them” and that “They are Blessed!”
If that wasn’t unusual enough, they also had a positive community, church, temple, synagogue or mosque which they visited up to three times a week, which also reiterated the same message from the pulpit and from within the members of the community. That God/The Universe Loves them, wants them to be successful, that they are amazing and blessed!!!
It is these Concentric Circles of Success Support that cause a fundamental change in the minds, hearts and lives of these women.
Each of us might have a particular belief which our close friends and family may reinforce, but not necessarily have a community which reiterates the same values.
Unfortunately it’s usually a bunch of really negative beliefs which our parents, friends and community reinforce.
But here in the above example, these are deeply positive beliefs which, become real and true for these people.
The reason why is because of the regular reinforcement, but also the continued evidence from people not in our immediate circle.
Homework:
- Tell yourself “The Universe Loves Me and I am Blessed. “
- Choose close friends and family that will tell you: “The Universe Loves You and You are Blessed.”
- Find or Create a community that you meet Three times a week which believes and tells you that: “The Universe Loves Us and We are Blessed!”
These concentric circles of success, love and support create a fail-proof positive feedback-loop that The Universe is Love and Everything is a Blessing!
